Help.
Help is everywhere. You just have to go looking for it.
For instance, I have been struggling for a few weeks now with my choice in majors. (I mean really struggling. The poor boyfriend is going mad with all the obsessing I've been doing over it) So I decided to DO something about my confusion.
Crazy, right?
I made an appointment with a career counselor at the University. And let me tell you, I am glad I did.
These people are actually there to HELP you. Like, that's what they get paid to do!! (Did I just bow your mind hole?)
And the funny thing is, these people are everywhere. Especially around a college campus. They have a person to help you with just about every thing you could ever have a question about. And they talk with you about it in earnest interest.
Close your mouth. It's true.
Now I have never really been one to take advantage of these people and I have never known someone to take much advantage. But I am here to tell you that this is a silly silly thing. Life is hard. Why aren't we all embracing all the help we can get?? It turns out there is no shame in asking for a little help here and there.
I know. Because I did today and I feel great.
Mind you, I don't have ALL my questions answered and I'm not necessarily on the PERFECT path to ultimate happiness but I feel a bit better about my mind numbing confusion and that feels like a win today.
So, morale of my story today.
Get help with the things you need help with. Because it actually does help.
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